Same-Sex Couples Counseling | Portland, OR

I provide affirming, attachment-focused couples therapy for same-sex partners in a safe, respectful, and non-judgmental space. My work is grounded in the understanding that every relationship is shaped by attachment—the deep human need for emotional security, closeness, and trust.

When couples experience conflict, distance, or betrayal, it is often not simply about the surface issue. Beneath recurring arguments or emotional withdrawal, there are usually unmet attachment needs—longings to feel seen, valued, and securely connected. In our work together, I help you identify these deeper patterns and shift from cycles of reactivity to moments of understanding and repair.

For same-sex couples, attachment injuries may also be compounded by external stressors, including family rejection, cultural or religious pressure, or experiences of marginalization. These realities can influence how safety, vulnerability, and trust are experienced within the relationship. I approach this work with cultural humility and a deep respect for the unique resilience within LGBTQ+ partnerships.

Using attachment science, somatic awareness, and experiential interventions, I guide couples in strengthening emotional attunement, improving communication, and rebuilding trust when it has been strained. Whether you are navigating intimacy challenges, infidelity, parenting decisions, or long-standing misunderstandings, therapy offers a structured space to deepen security and connection.

My goal is to help you create a relationship where both partners feel emotionally safe, valued, and supported. When attachment security grows, conflict becomes more manageable, intimacy deepens, and the relationship becomes a source of stability rather than stress.

If you are ready to strengthen your bond and build a more secure foundation together, I invite you to begin this work with me.